TAÍNO COUNSELING
ASD & ADHD Therapy
We help individuals of all ages in navigating challenges arising from ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder) and ADHD (Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder.
We specialize in working with late-diagnosed individuals, as well as those who self-realized later in life.
ASD & ADHD therapy can help you:
Feel Less Burnt Out
Increase Self-Confidence
Learn How To Cope
Differences do not equal deficit
In a world that wasn’t set up to accommodate you, it’s easy to feel like you don’t belong… it’s easy to think “it’s me that’s the problem” or “I wish I was just someone else.”
Therapy can help you learn to navigate these differences so that you can feel more empowered to live fully and more confidently.
ASD & ADHD therapy can be beneficial for:
Improving Social Skills
Behavioral Challenges
Building Self-Esteem
Support for Families
Better Understanding Oneself
Emotional Regulation
Managing ADHD & ASD Burnout
Improving Focus and Organization
Coping With Sensory Issues
Addressing Co-Occurring Conditions
Questions About ASD & ADHD Therapy
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Various therapies exist to support neurodivergent individuals, including social skills training, dialectical behavioral therapy, and EMDR. Each type is designed to address specific challenges faced by individuals with ASD & ADHD, aiming to enhance their societal integration and personal development. Social skills training helps clients to improve communication and social skills. On the other hand, dialectical behavioral therapy focuses on enhancing the ability to regulate emotions, tolerate distress, and improve interpersonal effectiveness - as such, it can be particularly beneficial for individuals struggling with common ASD & ADHD challenges.
Additionally, EMDR plays a significant role in helping individuals overcome painful memories and experiences familiar to the ASD & ADHD experience. Many individuals on the ASD & ADHD spectrums have dealt with extensive encounters with ableism and incidences of both "Big T and small t" traumas throughout their lives. EMDR helps by "repairing" mental injury from painful events and changing the way painful memories are stored in the brain, thus reducing or eliminating the problematic symptoms and negative beliefs resulting from them. All these interventions are tailored to meet the unique requirements of each person, highlighting the importance of a personalized approach in ASD & ADHD therapy. These therapies not only aim to address specific deficits but also work towards empowering individuals to lead more fulfilling lives.
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Therapy for Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) and Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) can be beneficial for individuals of all ages, helping them manage behaviors, improve communication, and enhance functioning. Children can gain skills in social interactions, emotional regulation, behavior management, and academic support. Teens benefit from therapy by developing independence, managing peer relationships, and improving self-esteem. Adults can use therapy to enhance focus, organization, and relationship skills, while also addressing self-regulation and emotional coping. Families can also gain support through parent training and improving family communication. Overall, therapy equips individuals and families with the tools needed for success in school, relationships, and daily life.
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Therapy for Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) and Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) can effectively address co-occurring conditions like anxiety and depression. Many individuals with ASD or ADHD also experience these mental health challenges, and therapy can be tailored to address both the core symptoms and emotional difficulties. Approaches like Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) can treat anxiety and depression while targeting issues such as emotional regulation and social interactions. Mindfulness and relaxation techniques help manage stress and emotional dysregulation, while social skills training can reduce social anxiety for individuals with ASD. Behavioral interventions for ADHD can reduce impulsivity and anxiety, providing stability. Additionally, therapy can support families in coping with these challenges, fostering emotional and behavioral well-being for the individual.
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The length of therapy for Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) or Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) depends on factors such as the individual’s specific needs, therapeutic goals, and response to treatment. For short-term goals like improving social skills or managing impulsivity, therapy may last 12-20 sessions, typically over a few months. If deeper issues such as emotional regulation or complex behaviors are being addressed, therapy may extend to 6 months or longer, allowing time for practicing and reinforcing new skills. For individuals with more longstanding or complex challenges, particularly those with ASD, long-term therapy (a year or more) may be necessary to manage social, behavioral, and sensory issues. Individuals with ASD & ADHD usually experience trauma throughout the course of their lives and can benefit from trauma therapy, which often takes a year or more.
Some individuals continue therapy on a maintenance basis after achieving specific goals, with periodic check-ins or ongoing support as needed. The duration of therapy can also be influenced by the severity of symptoms, individual progress, and the therapeutic approach used, such as Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) or Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) for ASD & ADHD. Therapists typically reassess progress regularly and adjust the therapy timeline to align with how the individual is responding and meeting their goals.
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Therapy for adults diagnosed with ADHD (Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder) and ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder) later in life offers a pathway to self-discovery, understanding, and effective strategies for managing challenges. For adults in this group, a late diagnosis can provide validation, but it also often brings about a need to reassess one’s life experiences, coping mechanisms, and sense of identity. Let’s explore some key therapeutic approaches and considerations that are uniquely helpful for adults managing the implications of these neurodivergent conditions.
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A late diagnosis of ADHD or ASD often uncovers years, if not decades, of unrecognized neurodivergent experiences. Many individuals have adapted their behaviors to fit societal expectations, a process known as "masking." Masking includes hiding or modifying natural behaviors to seem more "neurotypical," or non-autistic and non-ADHD, often to avoid misunderstanding or stigmatization. However, the emotional labor of masking can be exhausting and lead to mental health challenges, including anxiety, depression, and a sense of disconnection from one’s true self.
A therapist can help clients with late-diagnosed ADHD or ASD explore their life experiences through a new, more compassionate lens. Unmasking is a key focus in therapy, where the individual learns to identify and release self-suppressive behaviors while working towards authentic self-expression. For many, unmasking can feel both freeing and intimidating as they reconnect with parts of themselves they may have long suppressed.
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Burnout is a significant challenge for adults with ADHD and ASD. It can result from years of high-effort social interactions, the cognitive load of masking, and the pressures of fitting into environments that aren’t designed for neurodivergent minds. Therapists specializing in ADHD and ASD are well aware that neurodivergent burnout isn’t simply the result of typical stressors but a complex mix of mental, physical, and sensory exhaustion. Burnout can also trigger or worsen emotional dysregulation, where emotions may feel overwhelming or difficult to manage.
To address burnout, therapy often focuses on strategies for self-care, boundary setting, and creating supportive environments. Techniques such as pacing oneself in social and work environments, practicing sensory regulation, and establishing restorative routines can help mitigate burnout and support a more balanced lifestyle. Learning to prioritize rest and recognize personal limitations is essential in managing the chronic exhaustion associated with burnout.
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EMDR is a frequently used approach to help neurodivergent individuals manage anxiety, self-doubt, and depressive symptoms that can accompany ADHD and ASD. With ADHD, for example, clients may work on restructuring beliefs related to self-worth and self-esteem, helping to alleviate the inner criticism that often develops from struggling with focus and executive function challenges. Similarly, individuals with ASD may benefit from EMDR to manage social anxiety and understand unhelpful patterns in thinking that arise from the desire to "fit in."
In addition to EMDR, skills training such as improving executive functioning, can also play a vital role. Adults with ADHD may work on time management, prioritization, and organizational strategies to make daily routines less overwhelming. For ASD clients, skills training might focus on communication techniques, social scripts, or sensory management, which can alleviate the stress that social interactions and sensory overload sometimes cause.
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ACT is another valuable modality for neurodivergent individuals because it emphasizes self-acceptance and value-driven actions rather than attempting to "fix" or "change" behaviors. Given the societal pressures to conform to neurotypical standards, many adults with ADHD or ASD experience self-judgment and frustration with their perceived shortcomings. ACT helps clients connect with values that are important to them, encouraging actions that align with those values rather than focusing on masking or suppressing neurodivergent traits.
For instance, rather than focusing on eradicating behaviors labeled as "impulsive" or "distracted" due to ADHD, ACT may encourage a person to view these traits with greater acceptance and curiosity. If a client struggles with sensory overstimulation, a therapist may help them develop values-based responses that honor their need for sensory breaks without guilt or shame.
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Therapy often includes a focus on self-advocacy and clear communication, especially for adults with ASD. Late-diagnosed individuals might have internalized a belief that they should not express needs or discomfort, which can lead to feelings of resentment, frustration, or isolation. Therapists work with clients to develop assertive communication skills, helping them express boundaries in a constructive way, ask for accommodations, and identify environments and relationships that are supportive and understanding.
Self-advocacy skills can also help clients take an active role in managing their work and social environments. They may work on setting clear boundaries about workload or requesting sensory-friendly spaces. Self-advocacy empowers clients to reduce unnecessary stress and create spaces that support their unique needs.
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Connecting with other neurodivergent individuals can be incredibly healing. Many adults with ADHD or ASD feel isolated or misunderstood, especially if they have spent years masking or feeling out of sync with peers. Therapy can help foster this sense of connection by encouraging clients to join support groups, find neurodivergent-friendly communities, and seek relationships where they feel safe to express themselves authentically.
Social support offers not only companionship but also validation for unique experiences and challenges. Many people find that hearing others’ experiences with late-diagnosed ADHD or ASD provides a sense of solidarity and relief, counteracting feelings of loneliness or alienation.
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Perhaps one of the most transformative elements of therapy for adults with late-diagnosed ADHD or ASD is the process of building a life that aligns with their needs and values rather than societal expectations. In therapy, clients may explore what it looks like to work and live in ways that prioritize mental health, authenticity, and joy. This often involves evaluating career paths, hobbies, and social circles to ensure they support rather than drain the individual.
By identifying and pursuing activities that feel rewarding and manageable, clients begin to build lives that suit their neurodivergent minds. This may include seeking out jobs that offer flexible hours or sensory-friendly environments, prioritizing relationships that are understanding and accepting, or setting up living spaces designed to reduce sensory overload.
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Therapy for adults with late-diagnosed ADHD and ASD is about creating space for understanding, acceptance, and personal growth. It offers tools to manage daily challenges while embracing the strengths of a neurodivergent mind. By recognizing that these diagnoses are not deficits but unique ways of processing the world, individuals can shift from merely surviving to thriving in their own way.
Through self-advocacy, mindfulness, and connection to supportive communities, late-diagnosed adults find not only relief from past struggles but also a pathway to live authentically and confidently. Therapy thus plays a crucial role in guiding individuals through this journey, offering strategies and insights to navigate a neurodivergent life with self-compassion and resilience.
If you’d like to find out more about ASD & ADHD Therapy, book a free 20-minute consultation with one of our therapists today.
Therapists Offering ASD & ADHD Therapy:
Damaris Acosta
Natalie Montañez
Nancy Paige
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